Peter Evans, 35, Software manager

"I've been to 15 Morrissey concerts so far but those that really stand out were in Los Angeles in 2004. I'd been invited out there by my friends Elvira and David, whom I had met on the internet. That's one of the best parts about being a Smiths and Morrissey fan; the great friends you make through your shared passion. I went to five amazing concerts in six days, and on the Sunday I got "Morrissey" tattooed in a love heart on my arm.

My colleagues at work probably do think I'm obsessed. They often ask me if we'll ever have a conversation that won't come back to the Smiths or Morrissey. But becoming a fan was kind of like getting a religion. It's something inside you that never leaves. The song lyrics are just so intense, so personal and they appeal to me on a very emotional level. I guess that's just the kind of guy I am. I can't imagine this is something I'll ever grow out of.

Being a Smiths and Morrissey fan has affected some of the most pivotal moments of my life; I know it contributed to my divorce. But my current partner is as big a fan as I am. I think having that connection is fundamental; it's like speaking a second language. We're hoping to get married on Morrissey's 50th birthday at Salford Lads Club."

The Guardian's The songs that saved my life.